Blog on how to get your ex back, make up after a fight, and avoid break up or divorce.

You know you do something hurt thier feelings and it feels like the end of the world. Then you decide ‘Ok I’m going to apologize and make up’
You apologize and the person give you a cold-shoulder.
How do you deal with the hurt of a cold-shoulder?

Do you just write it off as, ‘this person isnt worth my time’?

Can you learn to trust the person again?

What if I am afraid that I will hurt the person again?

Well…maybe i would wait a while…see if they’re ok after a little time. I wouldn’t say they aren’t worth my time, because if i’d hurt them i owe them happiness (well that’s how i’d feel). I would maybe not trust them as much but still keep a good relationship with them, and if i was afraid of hurting them i’d let them know that because i wouldn’t want them to think i’m staying away from them for no reason.

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my husband and I are new parents. Nicholas is 4 months old, and I think because we’re so worn down and tired we just can get frustrated easily at each other. I really want to make it up to my husband though. We never used to be like this. We don’t "fight" we just sometimes snap at each other but I want him to know I’m done with that and I’m sorry. Ideas parents?

hmm well one way to not feel so tense is to do massages
one for him, then he’s gotta do one for you.

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Okay, so in my opinion make-up sex is wrong. I told a girl this and she got upset, but I have a good reason. When you fight, it sucks. But if you do something fun afterwards, you are indirectly encouraging more drama and conflict. You have to have a fight to have make up sex.

So with my ex, I wouldn’t do it. If she started kissing on me after a fight, I’d not give in, explain how I felt, and go on. It used to make her upset, but I think its because she wanted drama, not because she felt inadequate. When I didn’t give her the ups and downs she wanted (which I loathe) she got ticked off.

What does everyone on here think? Do most women do this cause they’re drama queens and like the rush of anger and ecstacy? Or am I reading into this too much (I am a psychology student, lol).
I don’t hold a grudge after the fight. I just don’t have sex. I apologize or accept her apology, or whatever is necessary to make the night go on. One of us might make dinner or something as a peace offering, but no sex.

Make up sex is a bad idea. It is just an excuse to fight. Good job with standing your ground.

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Other than sex, how do you make up with your partner after a fight/argument? All thoughts and opinions wanted and needed.

Thank you.

Talking. really its the best thing you can do. My girlfriend and I have over all a great relationship but we get in fights often. We both have horrible tempers and its hard for either of us to admit we are wrong but once we have time to cool of I try and talk to her, because even though I dont want to givein i know she wont. I would talk to your partner and get a base on the arguement and see what went wrong and then talk about it calmy.

hope it helped =]

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