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How do I stop a divorce that’s in progress?
Author: Chris
My wife filed divorce 2 years ago. The judge ordered 50/50 custody and ordered me to pay child support. Since then, we’ve been working things out and neither of us have persued completing the divorce in over a year.
How do we stop the divorce, and do we have to go back to court to stop the child support?
Also, if we split up again will he have to fight for custody all over again?
You have to go back to court to stop child support and fill out papers on why you want to stop the divorce. If you split again, you do have a right to fight for custody, but I would try to do it amicable and do visitations and agree on something between the two of you that works so that courts do not need to be involved. Ask yourself why you would want to fight for custody, is it to get back at her or because you really feel the child is better with you. Try to be civil so not to include the courts, I would not let anger get in the way of what is best for the child.
However, I am happy that this story turned around. Divorce is ugly and marriage takes work and commitment and love. It needs nourishment to grow like a flower. So, you can stop the divorce. I would talk to your lawyer exactly about the paper work that you have to fill out.
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ive heard of books and counselors that have guarenteed ways to stop a divorce dead in its tracks with some things you can buy some things you can do and things youcan say. does anyone have a good experience with that and can give me some feedback?
It really depends on why you are considering divorce in the first place. First thing to do is pray. Pray together!
Go to stopunwanteddivorce.com and read it. There are other sites as well but this one is good. Another good one that does not require ordering a book is stopyourdivorce.com. This one gives clear easy to read and do examples to help you through a tough situation.
Both of you need to take a step backwards and realize why you got married in the first place. Nothing is so bad that it can not be fixed. Marriage takes work. It takes patience. It takes both of you working toward your future, not just one. It takes being consistent. It takes forgiveness.
If only one of you want to stop it you may have a hard time. But study up on it and get in touch with your local church and get counseling.
If the two of you can overcome this there is nothing that can get in the way of your happiness. But, both of you have to want it.
How can I stop my husband from filing a divorce?
Author: Chris
My husband told me that he has fallen in love with another lady. To be responsible, he has to file a divorce with me . He avoids contact me and cuts my line if I call him.
You can’t stop him . He has made his decision and the sooner that you let him go the better of a chance you will have at healing .
You also have to tell yourself that this was not your fault . No one twisted his arm and made him go out and cheat . He done that all on his own .
Then ask yourself why you would want to hang on to a cheater .
By hanging on to a cheater you will do nothing but set yourself up for future heartache .
Once a cheater , always a cheater .
Do yourself a big favor and be thankful that you will soon be rid of him .
In a few years he will do to her what he has done to you .
Let him go , move on with your life and save your dignity .
Good luck .
Both have to want it to work. Counseling is a good option. But if both partners aren’t for fixing things it’s best to just let it go.